The previous miscarriage had left them all spooked up and Trystan was extra careful this time.
Not only that he, had started obsessing about the little details and he weighed himself every now and then, adding to that he took multiple pregnancy tests to be sure about it. They even made advance appointments for the six-week ultrasound and informed them about how they would be treating a pregnant trans-dads. Trystan felt it was a necessary precaution, based on his experience as a transgender individual.
“I can feel someone looking at my face and searching for the remnants of womanhood, he said.
He further added, “They kind of squint their eyes a little bit and I can tell they’re trying to take away my beard, they’re trying to de-transition me in their heads.” Fortunately, all those fears didn’t turn out to be real. “There just hasn’t been an ounce of transphobia from anyone I have come in contact with,” he said. “Every person wouldn’t even bat an eye that there was a dude with a beard claiming to be pregnant who is here to get bloodwork done – and I have been trans long enough to know that doesn’t come magically.” Theirs was an accident
Theirs was an accidental parenthood but they have been lucky to have experienced it!
They became parents to Biff’s niece and nephew as their parents were deemed unfit to care for them due to substance abuse issues. Riley and Hailey had plenty of emotional baggage from their previous neglectful environment, but thanks to Biff and Trystan are happy and healthy and loved. As for the new addition to the family, they revealed that they will be soon welcoming a son, who they joke about in the family as being ‘diagnosis: male.’
